13 Best Ways to Become an Authoritative Person

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How to be an authoritative person?

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An authoritative figure has many benefits in life, including in the world of work or social life. Among them are increasing attractiveness, increasing someone's sympathy for you, being considered important and always sought after, and even making you more confident.

Authority is not only possessed by bosses, respected people, or important people. There are some people who are gifted with dignity and charisma like a respected leader. But not a few people need some practice to cultivate or hone that authority.

For those of you who want to increase your dignity, don't miss reading this article thoroughly. Here are some ways to be authoritative in various situations:

1. Learn the Body Language of an Authorized Person

Body language is a sign that shows a person's condition. From body language it can be seen that the person concerned is angry, tense, lying, and various other emotions. Likewise, authority can also be shown with the right body language.

There are several body languages you can learn to appear more authoritative in front of others. One way is to walk or move confidently. This method can be practiced by sitting or standing with an upright back.

The next body language is maintaining eye contact when communicating with the other person. Eyes can be the source of other people's judgments. An unfocused gaze can make you appear anxious and even dishonest about speaking.

In addition to maintain eye contact, speaking in mirroring techniques is also one suggestion to increase authority. 

This method makes you appear to admire or give approval to the other person. Of course this will make a good impression on the person you are talking to.

2. Think Positive

Thoughts are the center of all actions and words that come out of you and all of us. This is because the mind is in full control of every behavior and speech. Having positive thoughts is the key so that your authority can come out naturally.

Looking at everything from the positive side, including the problems that arise, is the first step that can be taken. 

In addition, do not be too quick to conclude everything, especially for things that "look" bad. Misjudgment can reduce your authority in the eyes of others.

Being grateful about everything you have is also one of those positive thoughts and actions that are not too difficult to do. 

This attitude, consciously or unconsciously, will influence the pattern of your life. Gratitude can create calm and increase dignity.


3. Good at maintaining Attitude

Just speaking as necessary is one of many guidelines for becoming an authoritative person and also respected by others. 

Not much talk and useful talk can prove that you are an effective and realistic person. In addition, by listening more, you will become a person who is respected by others.

Apart from speaking, maintaining attitude can also be done by not joking excessively. Have a sense of humor to break the ice, but don't need to burst out laughing and be the center of attention. 

Remember, you want to maintain dignity, not be the comedian the whole room watches.

More important than the two descriptions above, maintaining attitude also includes doing good to others. Being polite, helping the needy and not speaking offensive are among them. This will provide comfort for those who are near us.

4. Stay Calm in Critical Situations

Being patient and calm when faced with big problems is one of the signs of maturity. Maturity is what will indirectly bring authority to you.

Staying calm in critical situations will earn you even more respect. Especially if you are a leader in a group.

When faced with a critical situation, try to keep looking at some of the good things behind it. Break the problem carefully into small problems that can be solved, either alone or in groups. 

Apart from increasing your dignity, being calm in the face of big problems can also make you more emotionally stable to solve problems.


5. Have Good Personal Branding

Some personal branding that can be applied to hone dignity include having a firm attitude, being able to be an example and improving social life.

Assertion doesn't mean being harsh or showing anger. However, behaving politely, diplomatically, and quickly making decisions can be categorized as being assertive.

Meanwhile, to be a role model, train yourself to have positive behavior without any efforts to patronize others. A good example is to set an example, not instruct.

In this digital era, good personal branding is also shown in managing social media. Avoid updating upset status or problems with family. There is no need to indulge in unnatural photos.

Even so, don't also pretend to be someone else. Be honest in using social media, but still within reasonable limits


6. Maintain Appearance

Another way to become an authoritative person is to keep up appearances. It is true that the adage "don't judge a book by its cover."

But appearance is important to make other people expect more of you. Plus, looking good will also increase your self-confidence.

7. Broad insight

Expanding one's horizons is one of the assets to become an authoritative and respected person. The broad insights will make it easy for you to find things to talk to and respond to other people when chatting.

Plus with broad insights, you can socialize with people from all walks of life.

Having this broad knowledge can also make those around you rely on you. It could be that they will learn from you about something, they don't understand. Giving knowledge to others can also be a field of reward, right?

8. Not Tell others about Personal Matters

As mentioned earlier, maintaining one's speech is necessary to maintain dignity. Including keeping the topic of discussion about which ones can be discussed and which ones are not appropriate.

To be a person who is respected, it's good not to indulge in personal problems. Especially family or partner problems.

Likewise, don't talk about other people's personal problems or gossip. Avoid useless conversation topics, especially if they are a disgrace. Fill in the chat with useful things, such as inspiring stories, useful technology or efforts to protect the earth.

9. Confident

Despite all the steps listed, confidence is the essence of increasing dignity. To become an authoritative or charismatic person, of course the foundation is having a strong sense of self-confidence.

With confidence, you will easily do the various methods that have been mentioned.

10. Empathy for Others

People who are authoritative are generally respected and respected by others. Being happy and respected by others does not mean they are afraid of you and can do whatever they want without paying attention to them.

Instead, that authority arises because you really care or have empathy for the people around you.

Therefore, he stressed that you can make others comfortable without becoming afraid. And that empathy can make other people understand you.

The empathy they do should not be excessive, it means that they help and care about the problems they face according to your capacity and ability.

If this empathy is carried out, and becomes a characteristic of your personality, then an authoritative person will automatically grow well.

Be empathetic to the right people, those who really need and are sincere to approach you.

You don't want to empathize with the wrong person, who is someone who wants to approach you for bad things.

11. Think Well before Taking Action

Being an authoritative person can also be honed and done by thinking before taking action.

That is, don't be easily provoked by emotions even if it's true. The attitude of an authoritative leader will definitely ask the problem or event first then ask for advice from people you trust if needed, then take the appropriate action.

On the way that is done above, you have built an authoritative personality compared to having to take action without thinking, even if it is true.

12. Consistent in Appreciating

Everyone must agree that everyone needs appreciation for what he has done. Someone who is authoritative should have a firm and consistent attitude.

This means that these two things are needed when someone does something wrong, then you will be firm with that person for further action.

Therefore, this attitude must be consistently given to people who commit similar wrongdoing. And that is called consistently appreciating wrong actions.

If you "dare" say what's wrong, then you must consistently appreciate something good or good.

For example, if you are a leader in a company, to be an authoritative leader, be consistent in appreciating employee performance.

These consistent actions are clearly what will bring others to respect you. They may even be more loyal to you and to the company.

13. Actions according to speech

Furthermore, another way you can become authoritative is to act according to your words. Surely someone who is serious about doing something will act according to his words.

If this continues, it will gradually become a person attached to you. If this habit is built properly, it will make you an authoritative person because actions always match what is said.

Can be imagined not if someone does not have an attitude that is contrary to what is being said, maybe other people also ask about the seriousness of that person in acting.

However, from the ten methods applied above, you must do it sincerely and sincerely.

Because without sincerity and sincerity, it will feel tired to run it. Especially if that authority is wanted for other purposes or if you want a certain position to get sympathy from others.

Conclusion:

Basically humans are created equal, nothing is different from head to toe, all exactly the same. However, the similarity in physical form does not apply to the nature or behavior of each person.

This can be influenced by parenting styles and also the surrounding environment. So in interacting, there will definitely be humans who have good, authoritative, evil, arrogant qualities, and so on.

Speaking of authority, have you ever been impressed by someone with that person? If ever that is one of the effects if someone has good things in him. One personality that will make someone comfortable and interact better.

Having an authoritative personality can be owned by anyone regardless of status, position, age, and so on. The good news is that forming an authoritative person can be formed and trained as long as you know how and take these steps correctly.

Those are some ways to be an authoritative person in all situations. Authority can make you more charming and respected by the others.

But the thing to remember is to be honest. There is no need to be proud because you are not who you are. It will only make you tired and overwhelmed. Hope it is useful!

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