16 Easy Ways to Be Yourself For Happier in Your Life

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Wikilatief - What do you feel when pretending to be someone else? You may feel strange, un relaxed, unhappy, or not enjoying life. It's not impossible that you don't have many friends.

Of course, those feelings and conditions are the opposite if you become yourself as you are. Unfortunately, you feel being yourself is not easy. What's more, you don't know where to start.

Don't worry about it. You can be yourself so you are happier and enjoy life more. To make it happen, here are 16 ways to be yourself that you can try. 


1. Accept yourself for what it is

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If you've been pretending to be someone else because you consider yourself a lot of flaws, stop it right now. Take a deep breath and accept all these shortcomings as part of yourself.

By accepting all the shortcomings, you have, you are honest and trust yourself to be happy. If not you, who would accept yourself as well as you?


2. Know yourself

Accepting any shortcomings may make you able to recognize yourself. Otherwise, it doesn't matter. Some of the questions below can help you recognize yourself :

  • What are your strengths and weaknesses?
  • What do you like and dislike?
  • How do you interact with others?
  • Are you happy because of the money?
  • What kind of life do you really want?

3. Make your strength a self-identity

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From answering some of the above questions, chances are you'll know your strengths. Well, make that power your identity.

For example, if your strength is writing, make writing who you are. Tell anyone that you enjoy writing and want to be a famous writer or make money from your writings.

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4. Always Follow your heart

Because our words lead us in a direction entirely to self-recognition. Although it is sometimes difficult and painful but it is really fun and for sure we feel happy.

Being yourself begins by following the word of the heart not based on logic alone. Remember, your reasoning must also be used.

At the time of going to do something like walking, there was a vibration in my heart whether it was a hunch or an instinct or whatever the name is, which I definitely take that as my heart word.

Start from the simplest thing such as the habit of waking up in the morning. When the heart speaks, wake up in the morning on time, then it is obligatory for us to intend with affirmations, if necessary use an alarm. Remember, repetitive actions will become habitual.


5. Don't worry about what people say or think

Pretending to be someone else is usually caused by worrying about what people say or think about you. 

To eliminate this cause, from now on do not worry or worry about what people will say or think about you.

Why? Because you can't control the thoughts and words of others. Besides, you're also unlikely to please everyone.

Look the way you want. Do what you love. Please yourself.


6. Focus on your goals

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Another way to be yourself is to focus on your goals. For example, if your goal is to be a best-seller, focus on creating books after books that benefit others.

In practice, you will face obstacles or obstacles. That's normal and keeps focusing until your goals are achieved.


7. Love what you do

When you focus on chasing your goals, you can be overcome with doubts so you want to be like everyone else. Eliminate those doubts by loving what you do.

Remember, a lot of people don't love their jobs. According to a survey gallup conducted in 2013, 70% of employees in the United States hate their jobs.


8. Don't compare yourself to others

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Over time, you will achieve success, whether it be small success or great success. Be grateful for that success and don't compare it to other people's successes.

For example, in your authorship career, you are only able to write 3 pages of books every day. Be grateful for that and don't compare you to other writers who can write 30 pages every day.

Why? Because if you force yourself to write 30 pages every day, you may not be readied yet. It could also be that you do not need to write 30 pages every day because your situation and condition is different from her.

Being yourself is not difficult. Try practicing the seven simple steps above right now. Indeed at first you will hesitate or difficult.

However, rest assured, sooner or later you will become yourself as is so that you are happier and enjoy life more.


9 Know and Develop your potential

If we feel comfortable doing something, that's a sign our passion is there. Remember, our potential is not determined by the line on the palm but rather our perseverance in doing something.

Our success is also not determined how high a school we go but rather how enterprising and creative you are in seeing opportunities.

By being yourself, it tends to make it easier for you to know where your potential is, then manage and develop it.


10. Stop worrying about other people's assumptions

Sometimes people listen too much to the opinions thrown by others. It's as if their lives depend on what others think. 

So it is not uncommon for them to always try to be others in order to be 'accepted' by the community. This is what makes many people afraid to be themselves.

Especially with the development of technology today, people can freely throw their innuendo through social media. 

So that makes people always feel worried if considered unfit. This you should avoid if you want to be yourself.


11. Always feel your strengths

Usually, we will feel less confident with all our shortcomings. Even sometimes we are too busy covering up the shortcomings until we forget the advantages we have. 

Whereas all you have to do is focus on your strengths. With this you will be inspired to appear confident, because you believe if you have something to be proud of.


12. Don't be shy to show who you are

What makes us afraid to be ourselves? Mostly because we're afraid of being judged by other people. 

For example when you want to dress, that reflects your person. But you abandoned your intentions for fear of being judged because of your eccentric dress style.

Well, from now on you're going to have to throw away that fear. You're free to do anything as long as it's positive. 

No one has the right to decide what to do. So, don't be afraid to show me what you really are.


13. Accept the fact that no human being is born perfect

You must've achieved what you want with the phrase "nobody's perfect." Well, that's the reality, guys. Humans must have made mistakes. 

Even those who you consider their lives perfect must have flaws, just like you. Because basically all humans are the same. You decide what you look like. 


14. Focus on the happiness you get

The next reason why you really want to be someone else is that you are looking for a new happiness. 

It may be that you are looking for new pleasures and happiness, but never forget the happiness you once had, because one of the human nature is to tend to forget one when something new comes.

Try to explore again anything that has made you happy all this time, when you last smiled happily, how your struggles in the past just want to be happy. 

If you already know, then never leave that happiness or even forget it, because that is what has shaped your person until now.


15. Convey your shortcomings to others subtly 

To make it easier for you to be yourself being you have to know how to make them accept you for whom you are, how to make them not occasionally care about the shortcomings and advantages you have,

This will not happen if you constantly cover the shortcomings and always show your strengths to others. 

It should be someone who is truly sincerely friends with you that will easily accept you for whom you are, that person will not care how you are and who you really are. 

But if you are worried about what others think about your shortcomings, you can show them slowly, so that the person can slowly accept you as well.

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16. Show that you're different

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If you have a good past, then you can prove that you are different from the past, you are no longer fixated with the past because the present has looked to the future with passion.

As well as being who you are, don't focus too much on the past you have. If you used to imitate people a lot, then nowadays you can perform as they are. Believing me, there will be someone who can like and accept you for whom you are.


Conclusion : 

One of the main ways to love ourselves is to always be ourselves. Although it sounds trivial. Not everyone can afford to always be who they are. 

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Especially with the many stereotypes in society that require us to always be others. However, by being yourself, you will feel happier. 

Because you always live life as it is and never depends on other people's opinions. You are also more free to hone your skills. Because when you become yourself, you always feel worthy.

If you want to be like most people, then you will probably tell yourself that things would be better if there has been a certain change in my life or a change in yourself. 

You can make positive changes to yourself. Therefore, be proactive and have a more positive view of yourself.

But unfortunately some people have different views. Some say it is very difficult to be yourself so that it becomes someone else, especially the person or figure most admired. 

Being ourselves is not about a choice, but rather a lifestyle that we need to grow in ourselves.


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